How I started

I’ve been using online dating for more than 10 years, and I've had a number of rich, fulfilling relationships from it. In 2014  I stepped back to analyze what was working, and what wasn’t. My analysis revealed many different nuances of online dating, particularly around the relative importance of photos, profile, and messaging. ​

​So I began coaching people to avoid mistakes that they didn’t even know they were making.

Why I Focus on Empathy

​I also saw that people often suffered in dating, because they lacked empathy for the other person:

• “Why aren’t they writing me back!?”
  
• “How could they be so rude?!”
  
• "That's such a horrible thing to say, I don't want to talk to them anymore."
  
• ​"Why don't I get more matches?"
  

So I’ve created my coaching program to help build that empathy, have more success with online dating, and have more fun.